They say it is the small things that really matter. These tiny joys in life that make it all the worthwhile. They also say that appreciation is a gift and that happiness lies more in one’s attitude than in one’s present circumstance.
In need of a dose of happiness myself I have decided to compose a list. A list of small things that make me happy. (I am happier already, just thinking about it) I’d like to share this list with you because I believe happiness is contagious and I like to spread it around.
Of course, this is my list. Your list, if you decided to make one (which I wholeheartedly suggest) would be quite different I’m sure, but I set this as an example.
Small Things List
*Birdsong in the morning*love in the afternoon*dark chocolate*green*slack key guitar*ocean waves*sunshine*jasmine tea*the impressionists*dancing in the kitchen*singing in the shower*painting my toenails*bee admiring*squirrel watching*beach combing*word puzzles*cats*gardening*blog writing*walking in the rain*taking that perfect shot*reading a book*geekdom*digging in the dirt*playing pool*laughing at myself*the tiny little daisies in the front lawn*running up the stairs*the birds and the bees*the forests with the trees*vivid sunsets*funny movies*bacon*dressing up for halloween*butterflies*ylang ylang*long chats over coffee*watching the clouds roll by**purple shoelaces*the yellow teapot*the blues*chai lattes with extra whipped milk*laughing*looking up at the sky*poetry*music*Dr. Suess*oregon strawberries*star-gazing*autumn leaves* spring trees*going barefoot in the summertime*silence*reading good blogs*stopping and smelling the roses*the perfect kiss*romance*ice cream*rainbows*science*wordplay*humorous banter*intelligent conversation*the eyes of a child*the innocence of youth*the wisdom of age*irony*sleeping in late*dinner parties*picnics*late night talks over candlelight*learning something new*warm summer evenings*A job well done*splashing in puddles*holding hands*talking to the animals*hiking in the forest*walking in the park*ladybugs*pygmy marmosets*cherry pie*sweet peas*rosemary*springtime*moonlight*music*fuzzy socks*driveway moments with NPR*naps*big red balloons*popcorn with lots of butter*blue skies*a wink and a smile*dewdrops*dragonflies*coloring outside the lines*3 little birds*blowing bubbles*the sound of crickets in my backyard*glitter*long lists of happy things*
Just writing this made me happy!
“Precisely the least, the softest, lightest, a lizard’s rustling, a breath, a breeze, a moment’s glance– it is little that makes the best happiness”
- life’s little pleasures (strawberryindigo.wordpress.com)
- Instant Happiness (strawberryindigo.wordpress.com)
Out of the Shadows part two.
When I started this blog back in August of last year I had no idea what a rich community of people I would be meeting and getting to know through blogs and communications. I have found myself looking forward to chatting it up with some of my newly found blog buddies. Many of you have shared of yourself. Some of you quite a lot. I have found your stories to be funny and creative, inspiring and insightful, and sometimes quite sad but always hopeful. I have seen myself in some of your words and I have been bettered by them.
I have also been inspired by you all to share something of myself.
What follows is a post I did way back last September. At the time I think I really needed to write it but I wasn’t ready to share with anyone. Soon after I posted, I buried this deep in a sea of bad navigation and a flurry of others. I don’t think anyone saw it. At the time I was relieved. Now I have reconsidered.
Those who know me by my blog alias; Strawberryindigo, may be surprised by the following post and then again maybe not, but for those who know me by Nancy, the following may explain much……
Out of the shadows
This very moment. This is just one out of a seemingly endless round of moments that make up your life. How you fill these segments in time becomes your story.
It can be difficult sometimes to weed out the minutiae and it’s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day trivialities and miss what is truly important. This often happens with me. Life in this modern world can get stressful especially during “interesting” times like these.
During my recent “bout of wicked overdoneness” I was forced to slow down. This allowed me to catch my breath and really see what was truly going on. I realised that little by little I was missing the small things. Life’s little pleasures that I enjoyed so much. I didn’t notice they were disappearing until they were gone.
I have been trying to appreciate the small things whenever and wherever I can find them. Sometimes it’s not easy, I’m a sensitive person and I have my share of bad news and bad days. I find that it is after one of these bad days that I need life’s little pleasures all the more.
About three weeks ago I made a plan of action. A basic outline of activities that I would try to incorporate into my daily life. These are very simple things. They appeal to me personally. I have taken on each one of them. Some are obviously easier than others. I am still working on the last one.
Life’s little pleasures plan of action master list.
Greet the day: Soon after waking I will greet the day by going out to the back porch for a breath of fresh morning air and a much-needed intake of some urban nature in the backyard.
Stretch: I will stretch my body and my mind. I will explore new horizons and grow.
Walk: I will walk, to move my body,no matter the weather. To get out into the community and out into the world. I will seek out natural areas. I will go off the beaten path. I will explore.
Stop: I will stop and notice the simple beauty that surrounds me everyday. A bird, the sky. A smile from a child, the laugh of a loved one. I will take it all in and try to find the goodness in everything I see.
Dance: And sing and let it all out. I will embrace my inner child and go with those eccentric urges and just have fun.
Let go: I will learn to let go of that which I cannot control and just simply Enjoy Life as it comes.
Wishing You an Amazing Day!
- A wicked bout of overdoneness (strawberryindigo.wordpress.com)